True Love (Sonnet 116)

Love is never failing it goes the distance.  I like William Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116 to reinforce this:

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
   If this be error and upon me proved,
   I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

The irony of this sonnet is that I loved it as a teen and as a twenty-something.  I hated the inconstancy in the love I received.  I tested it to see if it would last.  And I was more changeable in my love than anyone else.  That love was not love because it altered when it alteration found.

1 Corinthians 13: 8-12

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

Questions

  1. What words show the longevity of love?
  2. What words show the completeness of love?
  3. What did the Corinthians see?  How would their vision change?
  4. How has your love proved itself not love?
  5. How wil your love endure?

Going Deeper

Romeo and Juliet; Anthony and Cleopatra; St. Peter and Jesus;  Mary and Jesus;  Watson and Holmes:  Which of these famous pairings show true love?  Which show a false love? 

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About Plymothian

I teach at Moody Bible Institute in Chicago. My interests include education, biblical studies, and spiritual formation. I have been married to Kelli since 1998 and we have two children, Daryl and Amelia. For recreation I like to run, play soccer, play board games, read and travel.
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1 Response to True Love (Sonnet 116)

  1. James Pollard's avatar James Pollard says:

    We are so glad to hear of the change in direction for Darryl’s case (well, really, his entire future). What a blessing.

    It is hard when a great blessing comes with pain for another. The empathy and compassion you showed towards the birth mother were more powerful than any particular words you could have said.

    I think the answer to her question is that God really, really loves all of you so much (you, Kelli, Darryl and the birth mother). That’s why he “let” this happen.

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