Love is never failing it goes the distance. I like William Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116 to reinforce this:
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
The irony of this sonnet is that I loved it as a teen and as a twenty-something. I hated the inconstancy in the love I received. I tested it to see if it would last. And I was more changeable in my love than anyone else. That love was not love because it altered when it alteration found.
1 Corinthians 13: 8-12
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. 12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
Questions
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What words show the longevity of love?
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What words show the completeness of love?
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What did the Corinthians see? How would their vision change?
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How has your love proved itself not love?
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How wil your love endure?
Going Deeper
Romeo and Juliet; Anthony and Cleopatra; St. Peter and Jesus; Mary and Jesus; Watson and Holmes: Which of these famous pairings show true love? Which show a false love?
We are so glad to hear of the change in direction for Darryl’s case (well, really, his entire future). What a blessing.
It is hard when a great blessing comes with pain for another. The empathy and compassion you showed towards the birth mother were more powerful than any particular words you could have said.
I think the answer to her question is that God really, really loves all of you so much (you, Kelli, Darryl and the birth mother). That’s why he “let” this happen.